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a christmakwanzakah carol

we do celebrate christmakwanzakah. we do it for real.

the kids did our menorah at a paint-your-own place. we don't have an actual kwanzaa kinara, but these ikea candleholders do just fine. and it's not christmas without the animatronic dean martin.

a few months ago, ben backed a kickstarter project by jonathan langager, who is making a short film called “josephine and the roach”. as one of ben’s backer rewards, jonathan wrote a son about any topic ben chose. ben chose christmakwanzakah.

Christmakwanzakah from Jonathan Langager on Vimeo.

Christmakwanzakah
What a merry mix of holidays
Christmas Kwanza Hanukkah

Christmakwanzakah
I wouldn’t want it any other way
It’s the perfect holiday

Labor day plus Arbor Day–
Larbor Day sounds really really really dumb

Groundhog’s Day plus All Saint’s Day
All Hogs day sounds like it wouldn’t be too much fun

Christmakwanzakah
What a merry mix of holidays
Christmas Kwanza Hanukkah

the inaugural krampuslauf philadelphia — a joy!!

it has been the most exciting holiday season i can remember — between sinterklaas rhinebeck and krampuslauf philadelphia, also the most original!

you might think it’s just holiday sentimentality, or blogperbole, to say that krampuslauf philadelphia changed my world, gave me new purpose in life, and made me want to stay in philadelphia after a few years of thinking about leaving. but the fact is — it did all of this. i feel like our krampuslauf — and indeed, grassroots festal culture, is a calling for me.

of course, i had never even heard the term “grassroots festal culture” before finding that an organization called many mouths one stomach, in tuscon, AZ, had congratulated us on the lauf after hearing about it on national public radio. after i checked out their site, i could see that what i was feeling, and what i wanted to do more of, was no one-shot deal — it was a real need, and a need i felt my community — the community in which i raise my children — was feeling deeply.

the interview i did for the many mouths one stomach blog puts it all together — and i mean all of it. it was the best opportunity i had to speak to someone who understood what i had wanted to do, WHY i had wanted to do it, and who helped me see that the stumbling blocks i had come up against were almost archetypical. using the only definition i know of a “fulfilling experience”, this was one of the most fulfilling of my life.

why do i continue to think a CHRISTMAS DEVIL PARADE is good for my kids? well, it’s all right here, in InCultureParent magazine.

and here’s our quickest, easiest, cheapest krampus craft! and that craft is of course permanently linked here as well.

and, if you’d like a more audio-ish experience, listen to this WHYY radio piece, in which janet and arun and i talk about krampuslauf philadelphia.

we were pretty amazed when this piece aired on NPR’s “weekend edition” the morning of the lauf.

it had been shared over 8,000 times on facebook before we even got in the car to go to liberty lands, and over 10,000 on that day alone. wow!

check out the krampuslauf philadelphia flickr pool for shots of the event.

did i mention that joel came?

continue to follow along at krampuslaufphiladelphia.com.

halloween 2011

no knitting at all this year — and, the first year they chose what they were going to be. which made it extra challenging for me — because i was not excited about making glinda the good and wicked witch of the west costumes.

and, for anyone who sews, i’m sure this wasn’t much of a feat — it was just the simplicity pattern for these costumes, but it was a lot of machine sewing for me! i had help from a friend who had made the glinda dress a few years back (and quite a few fun trips to jomar with her as well), and working with all that glittery tulle was just… nervewracking. and the satin too. oy.

i used linen for béla’s dress and peplum. since i love linen, i really did want to know what sewing with it would feel like. i was happy with it and feel confident about using it again. and nicer than just a cotton dress. the hat and cape are just craft felt.

what’s the best prop for the witches of oz to take with them on a VERY busy trick-or-treat evening down 13th street? how about a barnyard cousin dressed as dorothy? they didn’t even have to have a grownup hanging on them the whole evening — from where i stood, they were clearly having a very memorable evening.

a big move forward in my sewing confidence. and, second to knitting, machine sewing is the thing i want to concentrate on most. happy halloween!

linus and sally, marked for death

claudia took her skull rubber stamp and put it directly over linus and sally’s faces in a peanuts’ halloween coloring book. and, in one instance, over the moon.

and then she colored everyone’s faces pink, of course.

we are inCulture Parent magazine’s “real intercultural family”

we like to think we are pretty real!

and we are BIG supporters of inCulture Parent Magazine. i look forward to hopefully doing some writing for them in the future.

korean culture blowout!

always happens in the early fall, doesn’t it?

won community center’s fifteenth annual korean folk festival

new york korean parade and festival

folklore and mission creep

yarn bombs have bored me since day one. i mean, one ends up having to be polite about it — oh god, the number of times people will e mail me articles about yarn bombs or goddamned crocheted coral reefs telling me they “thought of me” when they saw them — but i’ve never seen much point in going beyond the first of either of those particular enterprises.

but here’s a bomb i can get behind — it’s local, it incorporates found objects, helps clean up litter, and uses actual folklore to transform not just an already tended public area (like a sweater on a statue), but goes into territory that’s in need of a second look — and a watchful eye. marie elcin says it well — she worked on this with her friend johanna marshall, whom i am sure i remember working at rosie’s at one point, but in the blur-of-having-the-kids years of ’08 and ’09.

when i saw on facebook that marie was working on this project, i found a tutorial on shisha stitching online right away, as i had always wondered how that worked… but wasn’t sure how or when i would apply it. amazingly, that evening, as i continued to research perchta for the krampuslauf, i discovered that perchta is sometimes adorned with small pieces of mirror and edelweiss… how is this possible? i never cease to be amazed at how things “come together” for me and how frequently and richly i am rewarded for either chasing down, or holding out for, the things that interest and inspire me most.

working towards krampuslauf has become an exercise in process over product for me. i am, of course, interested in the final “outcome”, but my expectations of how “right” it will be have changed so significantly and gotten so much more serious than i remember my intial impulses being. the ways i’ve been able to incorprorate both knitting and writing into the project, not as a way to buoy the project itself but as a way to understand the krampus folklore, its meaning in general, and its more specific meaning in a world where “enlightned” rich white people believe they have no need for folklore and that “scary” things serve no purpose but to scare, has been a phenomenal gift. as a handworker, as a writer, and as a parent, i have learned more from krampus this year than from just about anything else.

i think our event itself will not be a “performers” and “audience” scenario, nor will it be a resume-builder for anyone — it’s a little too down-home for that. but i love the “stone soup” approach in which the real pleasure comes from creating something WITH people — who know that their fun from the event will be in direct proportion to the fun they want to have with it. it’s amazing to see other people’s renditions and ideas come to life.

and every day seems to add something else to the list of things i am making. i keep trying to “get ahead” but between halloween costumes and krampus and actual christmas gifts it’s never gonna happen and i also now realize i don’t even WANT it to happen. i can’t just “get projects done on time” and then let the clock run out with days or weeks to spare — i really just want to keep going until it’s all over. why be done if you’ve even got a few more hours left to make it more interesting, to learn a new technique, to use a new material?

at a time when claudia’s interest particularly is leading us to read a lot of fairytales and folklore, and we are avoiding disneyfied versions (she’s really into the grimm’s), my own interest is really growing. folk textiles have always been important to me, but now the stories surrounding them is becoming more important to me as well. if i were eighteen again, i’d be about to embark upon a VERY useless degree program, i bet.

maybe we all need a college of one. scott and sheilah’s began with proust, which i am rereading now as well. life is wonderful when you don’t settle. there’s no other way i can say it.

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ben and amber — a working unit for a decade.

as of today. a couple for ten years. a house, a printing press, various animals, two children, and a business (papers of incorporation came yesterday!) are just SOME of the things we have done together.

he got me a dancing dror video.

we had a REALLY good date night. we had dinner at a full plate in northern liberties. we went and saw “final destination 5″ in 3D. we went to a stag party at the bike stop.

i don’t need anybody to tell me how lucky i am, although they often do. girl friends, guy friends… MANY friends have told me what a good catch i got. i know it!

béla!

the famous (and much anticipated, i find) gotcha day picture! god knows i was looking forward to sharing it, but i think i got flickr and facebook taken care of that day, and then forgot about here! heck!

anyway, august 6th is that special day upon which we reflect on driving to the airport and saying to each other with panic “WHY DOESN’T THIS FEEL ALL THAT FUN?!” and then having to pee nine thousand times while waiting for the flight to arrive (and recording each of them on facebook) and then seeing the biggest, hunkiest, baby with the silliest black hair ever and then seeing him look at us like “THERE IS NO WAY IN HELL THAT I AM GOING ANYWHERE WITH YOU.”

since i forgot to put it up for three freaking weeks, let’s make up for it with a recent montage of all the wonderfulness which is this puzzle of a boy — who, for all his stubborness and outright punkiness came up to me today and put his arms around me and said, “i will always be your 창수.”


he knows how to make an entrance.


he’s not afraid of licensed characters.


he’s a good drummer.


he can write his name.


he can climb.

and he makes our family complete, which is why we celebrate the first day we saw him and held him and smelled him and got smacked by him. and next year, we’ll try to post about it on time!