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ben and amber — a working unit for a decade.
as of today. a couple for ten years. a house, a printing press, various animals, two children, and a business (papers of incorporation came yesterday!) are just SOME of the things we have done together.
he got me a dancing dror video.
we had a REALLY good date night. we had dinner at a full plate in northern liberties. we went and saw “final destination 5″ in 3D. we went to a stag party at the bike stop.
i don’t need anybody to tell me how lucky i am, although they often do. girl friends, guy friends… MANY friends have told me what a good catch i got. i know it!
béla!
the famous (and much anticipated, i find) gotcha day picture! god knows i was looking forward to sharing it, but i think i got flickr and facebook taken care of that day, and then forgot about here! heck!
anyway, august 6th is that special day upon which we reflect on driving to the airport and saying to each other with panic “WHY DOESN’T THIS FEEL ALL THAT FUN?!” and then having to pee nine thousand times while waiting for the flight to arrive (and recording each of them on facebook) and then seeing the biggest, hunkiest, baby with the silliest black hair ever and then seeing him look at us like “THERE IS NO WAY IN HELL THAT I AM GOING ANYWHERE WITH YOU.”
since i forgot to put it up for three freaking weeks, let’s make up for it with a recent montage of all the wonderfulness which is this puzzle of a boy — who, for all his stubborness and outright punkiness came up to me today and put his arms around me and said, “i will always be your 창수.”

he knows how to make an entrance.

he’s not afraid of licensed characters.
and he makes our family complete, which is why we celebrate the first day we saw him and held him and smelled him and got smacked by him. and next year, we’ll try to post about it on time!
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greetings from washington DC: anne morrow lindbergh’s mittens
we got an unexpected, most-expenses-paid trip to DC for three days this week. an excellent thing.
ben had a meeting in richmond VA today so it was just the kids and me. we went to the air and space museum, where the most interesting thing i saw was anne morrow lindbergh’s mittens. i got some photos, because this seems like the kind of thing someone would love to re-create, although i already see i’m not the first person to ever blog them.
if they’d seemed more like they’d been made from a published pattern, i wouldn’t have been as interested, but they look like a nice one-off, and i liked them.
béla loved the air and space museum and i think we will be moving into his “space” phase concurrent with his “robots” and “guitars” and “hr pufnstuf” phases. (“saturn” came up a LOT today.) as for claude, i’d say that seeing dorothy’s ruby slippers at the museum of american history — something we literally jumped off a double-decker bus to do, when we heard the audio announce that they were in there — was probably her personal high point.
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claudia’s first completed needlework project
i set her up this afternoon with some plastic canvas and a plastic needle and some yarn and floss. and to say “she went to town” is an understatement.
sometimes when claudia is drawing, she gets TALKING — a serious stream-of-consciousness that seems to be coming from some OTHER consciousness, as i often hear her use words and phrases i had no idea she ever knew. she has also done this while “knitting” on her own (tangling yarn and cable needles), and again, today, while working on this “NEEDLEWORK”, which is what she called it, as she moved busily from seat to seat in the house, saying “I’VE GOT TO FINISH MY NEEDLEWORK,” and “WHERE IS MY NEEDLEWORK?” she had a really good time. but this type of structured activity really seems to open up something in her mind. i know the feeling!
at one point, ben and i were at our laptops at the kitchen table, with claudia to one side of us, stitching, and béla at the other side, paging through highlights magazine. it was lovely.
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flash of the spirit
i have noticed in life that there is almost never a way to photograph a moment; by which i mean the moments that a friend of mine once called “golden moments”, and i doubt i need to explain what they are (although they are often so much more modest in nature than people might think).
by some amazing luck this afternoon, i caught one.
the elements that came together to make this moment began with my son announcing: “after i finish my popcorn, and after you finish your putier (computer), can i snuggle with you? i would like to do that. and then we turn the tv on.”
we proceeded to watch — three times, back to back — his favorite episode of the monkees, in which richard kiel plays a frankenstein-monsterlike-android that learns to sing and play the guitar.
in the midst of this, claudia joined us, situating herself between us and the television and attempting to read us “a story about african amirahs” (her latest mash-up of her birth name, amirah, and the phrase “african-american”). this “story” was flash of the spirit: african and afro-american art and philosophy, by robert farris thompson.
the unusual angle is a result of béla sitting on my head while i took the picture with my phone.
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this year’s girl
three years ago today, we saw and held our baby for the first time! our fat, tea-colored, froglike, flatulent baby.
since this anniversary is different than a birthday, we have a special way of commemorating it with a special kind of photograph. here is this year’s.
claudia got a series of cute postcards for her bedroom wall as a gift… they were from an etsy seller, who had found the incomplete set of these large alphabet cards — probably used to hang in classrooms in the late sixties, early seventies — and i guess used an oversized scanner to then reproduce them. they are fantastic. i am using the “soul sister” as my facebook profile photo now.
…and, she and béla each got new korean handdrums. (as there has been, quite by accident, but unbroken yet, a history of each of the kids getting percussion instruments as gotcha gifts.)
claudia is a big three year-old girl now and she’s driving us insane. ever hear the term “threenager”? we have, now. and we are on board with it.
she’s also drawing wonderful faces.
she’s a spectacular girl. yesterday morning as she got ready for breakfast, we heard her singing, “MY NAME IS CLAUDIA AMIRAH, AND I’M A DANCER!”
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