Category Archives: holidays

the holidaymaker (updated for mid 2012)

as a craft editor at InCultureParent magazine, i’ve been pretty busy taking unattractive self-portraits of my ugly fingers. i’m signed up for a lot, and this month i added a rash (three!) of new crafts. check them out!

2012

IMBOLC (feb 2)

BABA MARTA and ST. DAVID’S DAY (march 1)

BELTANE (may 1)

KOREAN CHILDRENS’ DAY (may 5)

BUDDHA’S BIRTHDAY/LOTUS LANTERN FESTIVAL (may 4-6)

something GEECHEE/GULLAH related in the summer

CHUSEOK (september)

ADVENT (november)

ST. NIKOLAS DAY/KRAMPUSNACHT (dec 5)

HANUKKAH (dec 8)

KWANZAA (dec 26)

2013

UP HELLY AA (last tues of jan)

martenitsi everywhere!

last year, i got excited about martenitsa — a beautiful bulgarian tradition with pagan roots, which marks the coming of spring with the relinquishment of small red-and-white trinkets — handmade or storebought, bracelets or little figures, usually — which are given between friends, and to those one wishes to know better. people exchange martenitsa on the first of march, and wear them until they see a first sign of spring — and then hang their martenitsa on the tree or bush where this first bud has been spotted.

the idea of making and sharing martenitsa has the perfect storm of virtues from my viewpoint. they are small and easy to crank out if you want them to be, or you can be incredibly fastidious and detailed. i love cultural iconography that allows for interpretation. and i love the idea of giving small tokens to friends… and to people you hope will be come friends. that’s very innocent and vulnerable and sweet (things we don’t all get in our every day commerce).

here's a day-old puppy, chewing the martenitsa i made ben.

and i love the idea that martenitsa create works of public art — hung in public spaces, and placed there by the public. collectively. one at a time. martenitsa are a version of the people’s microphone, in that if a person is waiting to hang their martenitsa until they see the first bud of spring, if they see a martenitsa before they see a bud… they know just what that means!

so through the magic of facebook, i organized a martenitsi exchange with friends in oregon, washington, california, maine, and here in philly. it was great to see friends getting into making them, all around the country. shortly before march first, the mailings started.

on feb 28th — claudia’s birthday — artist kate mundie and i made martenitsi with our kids’ pre-k class.

i wrote up a version of the craft — for InCultureParent Magazine. (BUT, i also did a leek craft for st. david’s day — st. david and baba marta share march 1st, and it is fun to think of their cage battle/grudge match for whose day it really is!)

béla is backing st. david.

on the actual morning of march first, i was sick, and forced myself to go out anyway and give some out at the coffee shop. it didn’t last long. so, i’ve got some ready for next year. but it was great to be able to put on the ones i had received, and attach the ones for my kids to their jackets and school bags and lunch bags.

one friend on the west coast took one of the martenitsi i had made him and gifted it to a friend with whom he had just patched up a falling out. it commemorated their new beginning.

the firebrand nikki virbitsky here in philly put a martenitsa on a rosebush outside of a chichi hair salon, only to turn around and see someone from the salon come out and remove it as though it were litter! nikki went straight home, printed out FLYERS about the tradition of the martenitsi, and took some of her handspun wool martenitsi, and her information, right back to the salon! THAT is hardcore!

this weekend the kids were helping me put the martenitsi from my own arm onto trees on tenth street, when — we SAW one! one we had not put there! it was one i had made — and we had a good guess as to who had left it (and we turned out to be right!) but it was extra fun to see one out in the wild.

baba marta day is a great tradition and i love sharing it. i’m keeping a whole flickr set for our martenitsi exploits… i pretty much start thinking about making mine now right after new year’s. you can combat the post-holiday emptiness and blues… with red and white!!

a christmakwanzakah carol

we do celebrate christmakwanzakah. we do it for real.

the kids did our menorah at a paint-your-own place. we don't have an actual kwanzaa kinara, but these ikea candleholders do just fine. and it's not christmas without the animatronic dean martin.

a few months ago, ben backed a kickstarter project by jonathan langager, who is making a short film called “josephine and the roach”. as one of ben’s backer rewards, jonathan wrote a son about any topic ben chose. ben chose christmakwanzakah.

Christmakwanzakah from Jonathan Langager on Vimeo.

Christmakwanzakah
What a merry mix of holidays
Christmas Kwanza Hanukkah

Christmakwanzakah
I wouldn’t want it any other way
It’s the perfect holiday

Labor day plus Arbor Day–
Larbor Day sounds really really really dumb

Groundhog’s Day plus All Saint’s Day
All Hogs day sounds like it wouldn’t be too much fun

Christmakwanzakah
What a merry mix of holidays
Christmas Kwanza Hanukkah

the inaugural krampuslauf philadelphia — a joy!!

it has been the most exciting holiday season i can remember — between sinterklaas rhinebeck and krampuslauf philadelphia, also the most original!

you might think it’s just holiday sentimentality, or blogperbole, to say that krampuslauf philadelphia changed my world, gave me new purpose in life, and made me want to stay in philadelphia after a few years of thinking about leaving. but the fact is — it did all of this. i feel like our krampuslauf — and indeed, grassroots festal culture, is a calling for me.

of course, i had never even heard the term “grassroots festal culture” before finding that an organization called many mouths one stomach, in tuscon, AZ, had congratulated us on the lauf after hearing about it on national public radio. after i checked out their site, i could see that what i was feeling, and what i wanted to do more of, was no one-shot deal — it was a real need, and a need i felt my community — the community in which i raise my children — was feeling deeply.

the interview i did for the many mouths one stomach blog puts it all together — and i mean all of it. it was the best opportunity i had to speak to someone who understood what i had wanted to do, WHY i had wanted to do it, and who helped me see that the stumbling blocks i had come up against were almost archetypical. using the only definition i know of a “fulfilling experience”, this was one of the most fulfilling of my life.

why do i continue to think a CHRISTMAS DEVIL PARADE is good for my kids? well, it’s all right here, in InCultureParent magazine.

and here’s our quickest, easiest, cheapest krampus craft! and that craft is of course permanently linked here as well.

and, if you’d like a more audio-ish experience, listen to this WHYY radio piece, in which janet and arun and i talk about krampuslauf philadelphia.

we were pretty amazed when this piece aired on NPR’s “weekend edition” the morning of the lauf.

it had been shared over 8,000 times on facebook before we even got in the car to go to liberty lands, and over 10,000 on that day alone. wow!

check out the krampuslauf philadelphia flickr pool for shots of the event.

did i mention that joel came?

continue to follow along at krampuslaufphiladelphia.com.

halloween 2011

no knitting at all this year — and, the first year they chose what they were going to be. which made it extra challenging for me — because i was not excited about making glinda the good and wicked witch of the west costumes.

and, for anyone who sews, i’m sure this wasn’t much of a feat — it was just the simplicity pattern for these costumes, but it was a lot of machine sewing for me! i had help from a friend who had made the glinda dress a few years back (and quite a few fun trips to jomar with her as well), and working with all that glittery tulle was just… nervewracking. and the satin too. oy.

i used linen for béla’s dress and peplum. since i love linen, i really did want to know what sewing with it would feel like. i was happy with it and feel confident about using it again. and nicer than just a cotton dress. the hat and cape are just craft felt.

what’s the best prop for the witches of oz to take with them on a VERY busy trick-or-treat evening down 13th street? how about a barnyard cousin dressed as dorothy? they didn’t even have to have a grownup hanging on them the whole evening — from where i stood, they were clearly having a very memorable evening.

a big move forward in my sewing confidence. and, second to knitting, machine sewing is the thing i want to concentrate on most. happy halloween!

linus and sally, marked for death

claudia took her skull rubber stamp and put it directly over linus and sally’s faces in a peanuts’ halloween coloring book. and, in one instance, over the moon.

and then she colored everyone’s faces pink, of course.

martenitsa — let’s add a bulgarian pagan tradition to our textile lives!

i love the breadcrumb trail, and how projects lead to other projects.

i was viewing some fantastic photos of the portland, OR krampuslauf, in which our second knitted krampus figured prominently. the photographs had been taken by gerhard hallstatt, an austrian pantheist and founder of the austrian industrial folklore project Allerseelen, who had attended the portland krampuslauf.

looking at some of gerhard’s other photos, i found one of some small, talismanic, red-and-white yarn figures that intrigued me. gerhard commented that they were martenitsa, a bulgarian tradition.

i did a little research. lying in bed with ben on new year’s eve, each of us with our ipads, i forgot about the new year entirely, and started looking forward to march 1. i could not wait to make martenitsa.

there are so many variations, and quite a bit of commentary on how the more contemporary ones are commercialized — made to look like spider man and other pop culture figures — and, on how much of bulgaria’s martenitsa trade is IMPORTED, from china, and how the chinese martenitsas are inferior to the bulgarian ones. wow, there are so many worlds out there, aren’t there? and yet, nothing new under the sun.

here’s a charming photo of a little boy who could use a nose wiping, wearing his martenitsa. i like to think someone made him that sweater, too — love the zipper detail on the shoulder.

here’s a funny little animated GIF featuring martenitsa — although i notice here the colors are switched — pizho (the male figure) is usually the white one, and penda (the female) usually the red.

i decided that i would try to needlefelt some martenitsa and knit others. both impulses resulted in some trial and error and ultimately pieces that i am very happy with.

the needlefelted martenitsa are large and chunky, and low on detail. i like their heft, their bauhaus-style. i only made two sets of these, and one is for me (even though you are not supposed to make martenitsa for yourself, i did.)

the other needlefelted set went to gerhard in austria.

the other sets are knitted, and very adorable — and tiny! when béla and claudia saw me working on these they were entranced and WANTED them immediately…

by all means mom, what we need in this family is more ethnic-y culture-y stuff.

kwanzaa

seems that whenever i mention kwanzaa, people are quick to tell me how every african-american person they know doesn’t celebrate it — or, they remind me of how it was “just invented” in the sixties.

as though holidays are supposed to be given as a mandate from go– oh. yeah.

claudia — a girl of ritual, a girl of celebration, and a girl who loves to talk about being brown — was ready for some kwanzaa. which means we were ready to get her some kwanzaa. she loves her kwanzaa book, and was well-prepared, saying “habari gani” to anyone who would listen, from day one.

well, i like kwanzaa. it is a thoughtful holiday, with both meditative and celebratory aspects, and builds a nice bridge between all the lavish celebrating of christmas, and the hard-hitting, frigid horror that tends to be new year’s day (particularly in philadelphia, when you live as close to broad street as we do.)

we don’t follow the principals yet day-to-day. they are hard principals for a two year-old to grasp, and we were snowed in a few days. but this week we ate at kilimandjaro, a senegalese restaurant in west philadelphia. plaintains are the new french fries.

we also went with friends veronica and satchel (and their moms) to the kwanzaa celebration at the gallery market east, where we saw some african dancing and did a bookmaking project.

claudia also completed a project independent of any instruction — a beautiful kwanzaa collage.

claudia’s kwanzaa craft has been brought to you courtesy of the exelon foundation.

have you heard of the great kwanzaa cake travesty? i never had. check out its genesis here:

and then read the story behind the “debacle”.

and have a joyous kwanzaa!

the RARE EXPORTS christmas vest

i was excited about seeing the movie RARE EXPORTS for sure. i love scandanavian horror in general. i love the combination of scary + christmas. the movie was even better than expected, and i think it will become a holiday tradition for us. i can’t wait to own it.

back when i wasn’t even sure we’d see philly on the “limited release” circuit, i had found this pleasing iteration of the logo on an official site for the film.

how can you go wrong with that? great design. of course, i looked at it pretty carefully and felt pretty sure it had never actually been knitted; it was digitally produced.

i played with it a little and it was fairly easy to chart. i intentionally went a bit less symmetrical, a little more organic.

here’s claudia in the pre-finished edgings of arm and neck holes, pre-blocking phase on christmas eve:

and, here’s béla, soaking it with vietnamese dipping sauce on christmas night.

we do have our fun.

gifts

we thought it would be good if the kids chose gifts for one another this year. they “gave” each other gifts last year, but they were not all that cognizant of it (béla had painted a lovely large ceramic barrette for claude which i am sure she will continue to use in her locs for years to come, and claude gave b. “the going to bed book” by sandra boynton, which was one of his very favorites for a long while).

this year we asked them to think about what they would get for one another. we asked b. what he thought claude would like as a gift. “pop tarts,” he said.

“NO, i no want pop tarts!” she yelled back.

further investigation led us to the knowledge that she wanted “a beautiful pen”. armed thus, daddy and b. went shopping while claudia was at a birthday party. not only did they find a beautiful pen, but some other art supplies they both agreed claudia would enjoy.

when she had been asked what she would want to give béla, claudia had initially insisted that it would be “a necklace”.

“no, i not want a necklace,” béla said. “socks.”

but, béla had already asked santa for socks. multiple santas. (from a distance.) and so, we told claudia, she needed to think some more.

for a few days she insisted that she was going to get him “an ice cube” or “an icicle”. (i am of the mind that the word she was searching for is “lollipop”. it wouldn’t have been a bad idea, really.)

but, we went off on our own in target, and she chose: socks with aliens on them, from the dollar bin; a nice new orange polo (very insistent about the orange one); and a box of strawberry kwik.

santa did not disappoint either. there’s no way we can go into it all, but the tiana doll — and the tiana-sized hanbok — were very popular.

daddy got a 붕어빵 iron!

mommy got foundry type…

looking forward to an afternoon with memie and ow tow and either korean food or vietnamese for dinner.