did you have a patch jacket as a kid? i kinda did.
the 2012 version is here, and it better last until 2014. if there is any sign of them outgrowing this by next year, it’s nothing but cigarettes in the easter basket, i tell you.
did you have a patch jacket as a kid? i kinda did.
the 2012 version is here, and it better last until 2014. if there is any sign of them outgrowing this by next year, it’s nothing but cigarettes in the easter basket, i tell you.
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last year, i got excited about martenitsa — a beautiful bulgarian tradition with pagan roots, which marks the coming of spring with the relinquishment of small red-and-white trinkets — handmade or storebought, bracelets or little figures, usually — which are given between friends, and to those one wishes to know better. people exchange martenitsa on the first of march, and wear them until they see a first sign of spring — and then hang their martenitsa on the tree or bush where this first bud has been spotted.
the idea of making and sharing martenitsa has the perfect storm of virtues from my viewpoint. they are small and easy to crank out if you want them to be, or you can be incredibly fastidious and detailed. i love cultural iconography that allows for interpretation. and i love the idea of giving small tokens to friends… and to people you hope will be come friends. that’s very innocent and vulnerable and sweet (things we don’t all get in our every day commerce).
and i love the idea that martenitsa create works of public art — hung in public spaces, and placed there by the public. collectively. one at a time. martenitsa are a version of the people’s microphone, in that if a person is waiting to hang their martenitsa until they see the first bud of spring, if they see a martenitsa before they see a bud… they know just what that means!
so through the magic of facebook, i organized a martenitsi exchange with friends in oregon, washington, california, maine, and here in philly. it was great to see friends getting into making them, all around the country. shortly before march first, the mailings started.
on feb 28th — claudia’s birthday — artist kate mundie and i made martenitsi with our kids’ pre-k class.
i wrote up a version of the craft — for InCultureParent Magazine. (BUT, i also did a leek craft for st. david’s day — st. david and baba marta share march 1st, and it is fun to think of their cage battle/grudge match for whose day it really is!)
on the actual morning of march first, i was sick, and forced myself to go out anyway and give some out at the coffee shop. it didn’t last long. so, i’ve got some ready for next year. but it was great to be able to put on the ones i had received, and attach the ones for my kids to their jackets and school bags and lunch bags.
one friend on the west coast took one of the martenitsi i had made him and gifted it to a friend with whom he had just patched up a falling out. it commemorated their new beginning.
the firebrand nikki virbitsky here in philly put a martenitsa on a rosebush outside of a chichi hair salon, only to turn around and see someone from the salon come out and remove it as though it were litter! nikki went straight home, printed out FLYERS about the tradition of the martenitsi, and took some of her handspun wool martenitsi, and her information, right back to the salon! THAT is hardcore!
this weekend the kids were helping me put the martenitsi from my own arm onto trees on tenth street, when — we SAW one! one we had not put there! it was one i had made — and we had a good guess as to who had left it (and we turned out to be right!) but it was extra fun to see one out in the wild.
baba marta day is a great tradition and i love sharing it. i’m keeping a whole flickr set for our martenitsi exploits… i pretty much start thinking about making mine now right after new year’s. you can combat the post-holiday emptiness and blues… with red and white!!
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claudia’s gotcha day, 2012 is upon us.
i think THIS is the first year she REALLY understood the concept of the “gotcha day photo”.
her birthday, by the way, was celebrated with a standard school pizza/cupcake party, but also with a SPA DAY at sweet and sassy salon in cherry hill, where she and her friends veronica and katie received facials, manicures, and makeup applications — and then went to the cheesecake factory for lunch.
this girl has come a long way in the past year. she’s still a princessy girly girl, but she has a MUCH wider range of definition for that. she understands how important it is to be kind in this world. she has a school where she is MUCH loved and she basks in that love daily.
she wakes up singing. it’s just who she is.
her birthday gifts were all VERY big hits — a charm bracelet (very personalized!), a balance board, and a pair of pre-stilt wooden walking blocks that both kids call “puppet feet”. she and béla also received a record player for her gotcha day gift and have been listening to my old 45s (“karma chameleon”) and burgess merideth reading aesop’s fables.
last night, in a sort of funny coincidence, she got to help take care of some newborn (one day old!) puppies. her reaction to them — ambivalent, slightly grossed out, but making sure they were safe — was very like my reaction to her, four years ago.
she. is. claudia. she is amazing.
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we do celebrate christmakwanzakah. we do it for real.

the kids did our menorah at a paint-your-own place. we don't have an actual kwanzaa kinara, but these ikea candleholders do just fine. and it's not christmas without the animatronic dean martin.
a few months ago, ben backed a kickstarter project by jonathan langager, who is making a short film called “josephine and the roach”. as one of ben’s backer rewards, jonathan wrote a son about any topic ben chose. ben chose christmakwanzakah.
Christmakwanzakah from Jonathan Langager on Vimeo.
Christmakwanzakah
What a merry mix of holidays
Christmas Kwanza Hanukkah
Christmakwanzakah
I wouldn’t want it any other way
It’s the perfect holiday
Labor day plus Arbor Day–
Larbor Day sounds really really really dumb
Groundhog’s Day plus All Saint’s Day
All Hogs day sounds like it wouldn’t be too much fun
Christmakwanzakah
What a merry mix of holidays
Christmas Kwanza Hanukkah
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it has been the most exciting holiday season i can remember — between sinterklaas rhinebeck and krampuslauf philadelphia, also the most original!
you might think it’s just holiday sentimentality, or blogperbole, to say that krampuslauf philadelphia changed my world, gave me new purpose in life, and made me want to stay in philadelphia after a few years of thinking about leaving. but the fact is — it did all of this. i feel like our krampuslauf — and indeed, grassroots festal culture, is a calling for me.
of course, i had never even heard the term “grassroots festal culture” before finding that an organization called many mouths one stomach, in tuscon, AZ, had congratulated us on the lauf after hearing about it on national public radio. after i checked out their site, i could see that what i was feeling, and what i wanted to do more of, was no one-shot deal — it was a real need, and a need i felt my community — the community in which i raise my children — was feeling deeply.
the interview i did for the many mouths one stomach blog puts it all together — and i mean all of it. it was the best opportunity i had to speak to someone who understood what i had wanted to do, WHY i had wanted to do it, and who helped me see that the stumbling blocks i had come up against were almost archetypical. using the only definition i know of a “fulfilling experience”, this was one of the most fulfilling of my life.
why do i continue to think a CHRISTMAS DEVIL PARADE is good for my kids? well, it’s all right here, in InCultureParent magazine.
and here’s our quickest, easiest, cheapest krampus craft! and that craft is of course permanently linked here as well.
and, if you’d like a more audio-ish experience, listen to this WHYY radio piece, in which janet and arun and i talk about krampuslauf philadelphia.
we were pretty amazed when this piece aired on NPR’s “weekend edition” the morning of the lauf.
it had been shared over 8,000 times on facebook before we even got in the car to go to liberty lands, and over 10,000 on that day alone. wow!
check out the krampuslauf philadelphia flickr pool for shots of the event.
continue to follow along at krampuslaufphiladelphia.com.
Posted in amber, family, holidays, inspiration, knitting, textiles, publishing
no knitting at all this year — and, the first year they chose what they were going to be. which made it extra challenging for me — because i was not excited about making glinda the good and wicked witch of the west costumes.
and, for anyone who sews, i’m sure this wasn’t much of a feat — it was just the simplicity pattern for these costumes, but it was a lot of machine sewing for me! i had help from a friend who had made the glinda dress a few years back (and quite a few fun trips to jomar with her as well), and working with all that glittery tulle was just… nervewracking. and the satin too. oy.
i used linen for béla’s dress and peplum. since i love linen, i really did want to know what sewing with it would feel like. i was happy with it and feel confident about using it again. and nicer than just a cotton dress. the hat and cape are just craft felt.
what’s the best prop for the witches of oz to take with them on a VERY busy trick-or-treat evening down 13th street? how about a barnyard cousin dressed as dorothy? they didn’t even have to have a grownup hanging on them the whole evening — from where i stood, they were clearly having a very memorable evening.
a big move forward in my sewing confidence. and, second to knitting, machine sewing is the thing i want to concentrate on most. happy halloween!
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claudia took her skull rubber stamp and put it directly over linus and sally’s faces in a peanuts’ halloween coloring book. and, in one instance, over the moon.
and then she colored everyone’s faces pink, of course.